Some weeks ago, I discussed my new self defense gun. One of the things I revealed was the odd, gimicky holster I use to keep people from knowing that I am armed.
This prompted long time reader knirirr to ask a question …
“That holster looks like it does a good job of concealing the contents. But, it seems fairly large compared with a mobile phone holster – does anyone ever mistake it as that, or ask what’s in it?”
knirirr’s question was answered very well by Siergen, another long time reader, who said that he would tell curious people that it held a tablet or other electronic device. This is a great bit of misdirection, as it leads onlookers to start imagining what kind of Internet capable gadget is nestled inside the square box, while banishing images of firearms that might otherwise dance in their heads.
But the exchange started me to thinking. You see, I have never experienced anyone asking me what was inside the box. In fact, it would appear that no one has even harbored suspicions that I was carrying a gun.
This is due to three very deliberate steps that I have taken to minimize the characteristics that people usually associate with advocates of armed self defense.
I DRESS REASONABLY WELL
I am not a fashion plate by any stretch of the imagination. There are no bespoke suits to be found in my closet, and all of my clothes were purchased in big box bargain chain stores. But what I put on in the morning is just a tiny bit higher quality than the bottom rung. The best way that I can put it is that all of my shirts have collars.
What do I mean by that? Consider the difference between a polo shirt and a T-shirt. One has a collar, and one does not.
Please note that I also don’t wear anything with logos or pictures, and I certainly don’t advertise the fact that I am an advocate for armed self defense.
There isn’t anything wrong with such garments, of course, but the very essence of carrying a concealed self defense tool is concealment. This purpose is defeated if one becomes a walking advertisement for their favorite firearms manufacturer.